What are the benefits of CBT for stress?
Discover your patterns of thinking that trigger a stress response
When it comes to getting through each workday with less stress, reframing our perspective can play a significant role in reducing tension and anxiety. Our emotions start with our interpretation of events – it’s not so much the facts that drive what we feel, it’s what we think about the event. The idea here is to be able to recognise themes that come up again and again, to challenge the thoughts and words you use to describe stress-inducing situations, and to recalibrate your emotional reactions to them. Begin by getting a notebook and writing down these thoughts, thus kickstarting the process of ‘thinking about thinking’.
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Most of us know that delegation, learning to say no, taking appropriate responsibility and setting realistic deadlines would help the situation. So if you’re already doing those things, try these too:
- Stay engaged in what replenishes. Very often the first things we give up are those that nourish us the most but seem ‘optional.’ The result is that we are increasingly left with only work or other stressors that often deplete us and exhaustion is the result. So make sure you stay in touch with friends, go to football practice, carry on with learning to play the guitar etc. Whatever it is for you, keep doing it, as these ‘top-up your tank’ and keep burnout at bay.
- Many of us we buy into the illusion that we are capable of doing all of the things that are asked of us within the timeframe given. The first step is to reassess what our capacity is. Make a list of up to 15 tasks and accept that those few items at the bottom of the list are not only unlikely to ever be completed in the course of the day, but the truth of the matter is, they may not need to be done at all. The challenge comes in letting these go.
- When you feel out of control in a situation, curb your stress levels by reminding yourself of what you can control. Ask yourself what concrete actions, small or large, you can take to improve a particular situation – even if you feel powerless, you can always control at least your own reactions.
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Overcoming Stress by Lee Brosan and Gillian Todd